Having a cheating spouse can do one of two things to a person, it can drag them through misery for months, sometimes years while wondering if their suspicions are correct. Or the person with the suspicions can take complete control of the situation and find out all of the information they need in order to catch a cheater. The people that take the initiative and are eager to catch a cheater are the ones that are ultimately happier. Why? Because they give themselves the opportunity to find a legitimate reason to end an already toxic relationship. Wondering all day and night about what your partner is doing and who they’re with is no way to live. Strong relationships are built off of trust, loyalty, and honesty. If you’re not receiving these 3 core components from your significant other, chances are, they’ve already begun giving it to someone else.
If seeing these signs isn’t enough for you to confirm your partner is cheating, here are some other tips that will allow you to catch a cheater when they are least expecting it.
If you see an unknown number calling or texting your loved one and you are already suspicious that they may be fooling around, don’t hesitate. With the technology out today you have the resources to find out exactly who is texting and calling your loved one. Websites like Kiwi Searches allows you to plug in any number and get information such as the persons name and age.
I know this sounds gross, but it is affective. Often times cheaters struggle to cover all of their tracks. This leads them to make careless mistakes, such as throwing away evidence of their affair right in the garbage. Put on your gloves, you never know what you may find.
Take initiative and do your spouses laundry. While you will look like a kind and helpful person your spouse won’t realize what you are ultimately up to. Look for makeup, cologne smell or other hints that your significant other may have been with somebody else.
One of the best ways to find out if your significant other is being honest and faithful is the surprise drop by. This is where you “surprise” your significant other and bring them something to where they say they are. If you get lucky, it may only take one try to catch them red handed. This is a great way to catch a cheater in the act.
Catching a cheater may seem like a lot of work, but in reality doesn't it seem worth it? You could choose to ignore your gut instinct telling you that something isn't right... or, you could take that feeling and find out the truth. Discovering the truth once and for all not only will give you closure but will allow you to move on to bigger and better things in your life. Life is short, get to the bottom of a cheating spouse and find the answers you desperately need.